The Holiday season is quickly approaching, which means special family time with those you hold close to your heart! Whether they are flying out to visit you or you’re taking a road trip to spend some needed time with them, occasions with family could get a little hectic. It’s completely normal for people to butt heads during one of the busiest times of the year, so don’t worry! We all know how moments like these can get, which is why we have some ways to help you navigate with family!
During this important time of the year, it’s significant to understand that the holidays can be a difficult time for some! Whether it be because one is missing a special family member for the first time this season or they’re going through a tough time personally that causes them to lash out, be considerate of their feelings! Not everyone might have the best outlook on life at the moment, but you can help! Being there for that person can be just what they need to lift up their spirits!
It’s pretty common for family gatherings to bring out the worst in others, which is what leads to things not going quite as what most hope for. With the copious amounts of planning and preparation that goes into making the holiday season an exciting time, it can be the turning point for someone who might not feel as if their efforts are appreciated (which could take a possible turn for the worse)! Often times, when this occurs, we want to lash out as our response. But the best thing to do is to hold your tongue and take a deep breath! Once you do that, offer to help take over for a bit while that person gets a break, it might be just what they need! Interrupt the negative energy if you think it’s the best move!
Most importantly, if you need to personally, consciously prepare yourself for what’s to come! There’s nothing wrong with knowing that some issues may arise due to negative factors. Remind yourself of the real reason that you are there and that’s to spend time with your loved ones! If you have to take a second to be in the moment of it all, do so! Immerse yourself in the joy that’s around you and look at things from the bright side!
Couple | Jamie Harris & Felix Stone
Photographer | Emerald AZ Photography
